Ruining It for Everyone Else

I frequently hear complaints from polyfolk about OKCupid. Women complain that they get too many messages. While the men say that women neve...

Now, before you get all psycho-fan-geek on me, I'm as Hunger-Game-crazed as they come. My pre-pub paperback copies of books 1 and 2 a...

You don’t get to choose your parents, your metamours , or your triggers. Triggers? Those are the people, the situations, the news, the ...

Janapnese Meadow Rue Spiraea japonica I'm a sucker for wildflowers. In fact, just know, if you are hiking with me: THIS HIKER MAKES...

Ludwig Wittgenstein A few weeks ago, The Guardian posted a story written by Giles Fraser, a British priest and journalist . The title ...

The titles "primary" and "secondary" for partners is not reflective of their importance, the depth of the relations...

Did I miss something?! I mean, I don't follow politics, and I wouldn't consider myself a Weiner fan, but this recent controversy ...

It’s refreshing to watch children play. For one thing, I am reminded what it was like to be totally free to express myself in every w...

Long ago, on the schoolyard, we learned to hide what others might consider odd. Lest we commit the ultimate sin by letting them see us ...

Recently, all this talk about "poly normativity" has me feeling a bit left out. I'll admit it, when it comes to sexuality, ...

I recently read a post on reddit's polyamory board about a woman who was upset that her long time boyfriend couldn't or wouldn...

‘I am unhappy and I must be happy.’ In that very demand that I must be happy is unhappiness … When you demand an experience of truth or...